Episode 70: Listener Lily
Lily and Paul discuss how sexual dysfunction can sometimes not present itself until years into a committed relationship and the necessity in dealing with uncomfortable or painful feelings to achieve intimacy. Lily also talks about her bulimia, her intense body hatred and the sexual assault that made her initially overly promiscuous and later completely shut down. They also talk about weight obsessions, perfectionism, and the difficulty in accepting and discussing flaws. Lily is a school psychologist for kindergarten thru 5th grade in Los Angeles. She is 30 years old, and married with one child.